Simply hearing the word sex gets many people going. For others, sex is dark, forbidden, marked by taboo, something that is usually associated with “sin,” and therefore should make one feel guilty.

Let's talk frankly and openly about sex. Talking about sex is a healthy way for people to recognize and accept their sexuality for what it is. Sex is part of who we are as human beings. It is clean, beautiful, and helps us feel good about who we are.

Feel free to share even those experiences that you have not dared share with anyone else because you felt it inappropriate, or that no one else had experienced or felt it before.

Feel free to write your experiences the way you wish. You can use your own ideas, or use the questions below as a guide. In the event you use a question, you should only answer that question. You may also answer several questions in separate entries and allow us to choose the best one for the book. Whatever your preference, only a maximum of 2,000 characters will be published.

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When and how did you become aware of your sexual preferences?
How did you accept your masculine or feminine sexuality?
What was your first sexual experience like?
What did you expect from your first time, and what did you think afterwards?
In your opinion, what are some sexual taboos?
What are your sexual fantasies?
What do you fear when having sex?
How did you overcome your fear of sex?
What role does your religion play in your decisions regarding sex?
What would you like your spouse or partner to think about your sex life?
What is your favorite sexual position? Why?
What have you discovered about sex that you didn't know before?
How did you learn to have a healthy sexual relationship?
What do you like about having a sexual relationship?
What do you dislike about having a sexual relationship?
What priority do you give sex in your life and why?
How did you learn to balance sexual desire and love in your relationship?
What bothers you about your spouse or partner during sex?
What do you like about your spouse or partner during sex?
What is one thing you have not told your spouse or partner?
What things have you done with your spouse or partner considered to be “risqué” by others?
What has been the craziest thing you have done sexually with your spouse or partner?
In what incredible place have you had sex with your spouse or partner?
Do you like oral sex? Why or why not?
What are some things you have not tried sexually and why?
How important is sexual attraction to you in order to keep a relationship alive? Why?
What was your most enjoyable sexual encounter and why?
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Your story or anecdote will be published under a pseudonym or your real name followed by your age, city, state or province, and country in parentheses. Example: Jennifer Brown (age 32, London, England). It is your choice to use your name or not. However, for administrative purposes, you will need to give contact information. This information is kept confidential. This information will not be published or shared with anyone under any circumstance, unless you instruct us otherwise in writing. See Participation Requirements for more information.

100 Plus TRUE STORIES: Sex is a book that will be published under the Cambridge BrickHouse Books (CBH Books) label. This book will form part of the 100 Plus TRUE STORIES series. The objective of this series is to collect and share life experiences so that readers may identify with and/or learn from them.

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